April 21 late

Sometimes advice is good, but sometimes it is unnecessary and annoying.  I have a couple friends that I can go to, to talk about my problems, and get advice from.  When I go to somebody to talk about my relationship, I don't like pity.  I don't want somebody to tell me their sorry and they feel sorry for me. I don't want somebody that isn't in a relationship to give me advice about my boyfriend and how horrible he is and what I should do about the problems we are having.  I hate when somebody that has no relationship background tries to give me advice.  There are certain circumstances when I want advice from somebody with no relationship background, but not many.  Sometimes I just want somebody to listen and not talk.