My teenager years have been the best years of my life, and I can't imagine giving them up to be a mommy. I am far to immature to even be close to being a good mom. I haven't lived my life yet I definatly want to give it up to raise a baby. But I guess some girls don't care.
I've witnessed many of my friends and family's teen pregnancys and they all wished that they would have waited. Being responsible for something that precious is too scary. To be a good parent you have to be emotionly stable, finanically stable, and phisically stable to be able to raise a child the right way.
Being a parent at any age is hardwork, let alone a teen parent. Watching Teen mom and 16 and Pregnant let me see the struggles of being a parent and it is something I never want to go through. A friend of mine ust recently had her baby and its only been day two and she is exhausted.
She loves her little man to death but she also wished she would have waited. Seeing this makes me very aware of what will happen if your not careful. I just wish girls would understand how much having a baby at a young age ruins your life...It's not easy.
If you do stay in school it would be hard to leave your baby, or if you decided not to attend school anymore it would be hard to get a decent job when your ready to. Finding babysitters are always hard, keeping a strong relationship is always a struggle and girls don't see that.
I want to make girls more aware of the struggles. It doesn't only affect you, it affects everybody that cares for you.
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